Mentoring

Four things you should do to be really successful in life

To be really successful in life there are four things you should do:

– Be a lover of Christ

You need the love of Christ. Without God you are nothing; you can have all the money and still be unhappy with it. Sometimes we think that being successful is only about the money but there is more to that. What if you have the money and you do not have the health to enjoy it? What if you have the money and no family to share it with? What if you have the money but you feel empty within and not happy? What if you have the money and no love or maybe everyone around you hates you because of your bad character?

the love of Christ
Here is why You need God because he will complete everything for you. You need his love which is the love of Christ, he has given it to you freely on the cross with God’s love you will have the money and you will be happy and at be at peace with it. Proverbs 10: 22: The blessing of the LORD makes a person rich, and he adds no sorrow with it.

I know you will ask me me how can I have God’s love? You need to declare it everyday. You need to know that you have it already even if you do not deserve it. You have to keep saying it you can start with words like God loves me, Jesus loves me. I have the love of Christ in me it is that easy and say God help me to know you more. It is as simple as that.

– Desire to succeed

The desire to succeed in life will keep you going even when you fail at what you do. That will be the only thing left for you to keep you going because in this world if you do not have that drive to succeed you will be there complaining about what you do not have instead of looking forward to things you can have.

When you have this desire you will be able to take risks that can turn your life around forever. You will be able to prioritize your time because you know where you are going. You will not be a time waster because you know that time is valuable.

–  Be Patient and Focused

You need to be patient good things don’t just come like that they come with patience, consistency and handwork. Sometimes you will get what you do not deserve but you need to focus on what you need and where you are going.

Be patient and focused
You might even get jobs where their pay is nothing to write home about but you have to do them to survive. I tell you instead of complaining, keep your stand focus on where you are going and what you want to have because you know that your current situation is just for a short time.

–  Be a good person

You have to be good to every and anyone. Be good to a poor man, be good to a rich man, be good to an Illiterate it doesn’t matter who the person is be good to them. Even your enemy be good to him because today that person you think is your enemy might later end up being the one to bless you. Be good to even people younger than you. Be good to children because God will bless you through people. Any amount of money you will make in life somebody somewhere will be the reason for you to have it. Whatever height you will get to in life people will be the one to take you there. So if you are rude and bad to everyone around you then you are delaying your progress in life.

– Be a giver

I am sure you must heard these words: “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.” Yes it is true stinginess will take you nowhere. I was once there I always thought of how I wanted to use that thing you are asking me for and how important it was to me until I realized that when I fail to give especially that thing someone is asking me for I ended up not using them anymore they later become useless so I told myself I would have just given this anyway now it is of no use. Being stingy will not make you rich or it will not make you have much. Stop giving excuses for why you cannot give.